Things haven’t gone as planned after you got married—not many things do! Or, maybe you’ve gained large amounts of money from a growing business or obtained more property than before the union.

You might be thinking, “I wish I would have put together a prenuptial agreement before we got married”…and there’s nothing wrong with that. Protecting your properties, assets, and possessions is important!

Thankfully, it’s not too late. You can consider drafting up a different legally binding agreement known as a postnuptial agreement with the help of a family law attorney.

Why Should You Consider Getting a Postnuptial Agreement?

There are a few different ways a postnuptial agreement can help marriages or even those in the middle of divorce keep the peace.

1.   Keep it harmonious.

Believe it or not, this contract can actually help people with struggling marriages reach a new level of comfort in their household. Those who are on totally different ends of the spectrum financially may feel uncomfortable about their circumstances within the marriage, leading to many disagreements.

A postnup agreement can help couples who are struggling with financial differences keep their sanity and their marriages intact.

2.   Provide a safe way out.

Too many people continue unhappy, unhealthy marriages because of the burden of separating finances. A postnup can provide a feeling of protection if the unfortunate circumstances present themselves.

The details of your postnup can even span so much as to how you financially care for your children after emancipation. This way, you won’t feel stuck in an unproductive marriage and unhappy home for your children.

3.  Restoring peace of mind.

If there’s ever an opportunity to alleviate some of the worries you may have about the future, you should at least consider it. After all, your partner may be feeling the same way.

Providing the clear terms of how your properties, assets, and possessions will be split fairly between the both of you is an important conversation that shouldn’t be avoided, no matter how awkward you may think it could be.

How Do You Get a Postnuptial Agreement?

Getting a postnup agreement is similar to a prenup in the way that there are guidelines that should be adhered to, as well as making sure that the appropriate paperwork is filed with your local court.

Here are the steps that you should take if you and your partner are truly considering getting a postnup agreement:

1. Find legal representation.

Hiring an attorney that is well-versed in family law should be your very first step. Having an attorney to guide you through the process will ensure that your paperwork is valid, will uphold in court, and fair for both parties.

2. Consider all of your current assets and evaluate the future.

Secondly, you and your partner should take a while to review all of your current assets, your finances, and anything that you think may be attainable in the future.

This way, you’ll be able to come to an agreement about what you have now and what may come later. You must always provide full disclosure of your assets or else the contract will not be valid.

3. Prepare to sign.

There are many minuscule (but still critical) steps that come with drafting a prenup agreement, but after everything is complete, you should be ready to sign. This is what seals the deal!

Make sure you have someone there to guide you through the entire process correctly by relying on an experienced prenuptial and postnuptial agreement attorney, like Attorney Mujdah Rahim!